Na Ƙware Wajen Jan Hankalin Maza, Amma Idan Sun Kamu Da Soyayyata Sai In Yaudaresu”
Wata budurwa ta bayyana yadda ta saba jan hankalin maza har su kamu da sonta, amma daga bisani sai ta daina kulasu ba tare da wani dalili ba. Ta ce wannan hali na damunta kuma tana son ta daina domin ta yi aure.
Sashin daga Instagram na DABO FM ya gano muku shafin Diaryofanorthernwoman in da wannan labarinta ya jawo hankalin masu amfani da kafafen sada zumunta bayanda ta bayyana wani hali da ta ce ya dade yana damunta. A cewarta, tana son ta daina wannan dabi’a domin ta samu damar yin aure cikin kwanciyar hankali.
A rubutun da aka wallafa ba tare da bayyana sunanta ba, budurwar ta ce tana da wata dabi’a da take ganin ba ta dace ba, wadda ta bayyana da cewa tana yawan jan hankalin maza har su kamu da sonta, amma daga baya sai ta daina sha’awarsu ta koma ga wani.
“Ina da wannan mummunar dabi’a ta jan hankalin maza. Idan kai ne ka fara nuna min so, zan nuna maka kulawa har ka kamu da sona sosai, amma daga baya sai na ji na tsane ka, in koma ga wani.”
A cewarta, wannan hali ya kai ga ta kasa tuna adadin mazan da ta ce ta yaudara.
“Ba ma zan iya tuna adadin mazan da na yaudara ba. Na yi ta ƙoƙarin dainawa amma abin ya gagara.”
Ta bayyana cewa duk da tana ganin kanta kyakkyawa ce kuma mai ilimi ta yadda take fahimtar rayuwa, har yanzu ba ta san dalilin da ke sa take aikata hakan ba. Har ma ta ce wani lokaci tana tambayar kanta ko akwai wani abin da ba ta fahimta game da kanta.
Sai dai ta bayyana cewa sau ɗaya kawai ta taɓa shiga soyayya da gaske, amma a cewarta, mutumin da take so ya yaudare ta tare da auren wata mace.
“Sau ɗaya kawai na taɓa yin soyayya da gaske, amma shi ya yaudare ni ya auri wata.”
Duk da haka, ta ce har yanzu akwai maza da dama da ke nuna mata so, kuma tana samun nishadi da jin daɗin wajen wasa da zuciyoyinsu, sai dai ta ce abin ya kan dameta a wasu lokutan.
“Akwai maza da yawa, amma ina jin daɗin wasa da zuciyoyinsu.”
Ta ce babban burinta yanzu shi ne ta daina wannan dabi’a domin ta yi aure, amma duk lokacin da ta ƙuduri niyyar sauyawa, sai ta sake komawa ga halinta da ta ke jin daɗin yi na yaudarar samarin.
“Ina son in daina domin in yi aure, amma duk lokacin da na ce daga wannan zan daina, sai mu rabu da mutumin.”
Ta kuma bayyana cewa akwai lokutan da take gaya wa wasu maza cewa tana sonsu, amma da zarar sun fara sonta da gaske, sai ta gudu ta kawo ƙarshen dangantakar.
“Akwai waɗanda nake cewa ina sonsu, amma da zarar sun fara sona sosai, sai in gudu.”
A ƙarshen saƙonta, budurwar ta nemi a ɓoye bayananta tare da tambayar ko akwai wasu mata da suka taɓa fuskantar irin wannan hali, tana mai cewa wannan dabi’ar na damunta matuƙa kuma tana son ta kawo ƙarshenta.
Majiya: DABO FM ta samo wannan labari daga shafin Diaryofanorthernwoman a dandalin Instagram. An sake tsara rubutun domin dacewa da ƙa’idojin wallafa na DABO FM ba tare da canza ma’anarsa ba.
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